10 Psychological Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship

10 Psychological Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship

Breaking up with someone is less dangerous or risky than living with someone with completely different views and contradictory arguments. Falling in love is a wrong expression I guess, rather It should have been you know 'Rising Inn Love'. 

If there's no such feeling of rising is occurring between you both better to make you ways apart draining yourself psychologically wasting your time and energy on something whose nature is not compatible with yours. 

The person you are living with can be your luck but don't let him/her be a destiny of yours. One of my roommates was living in the same dilemma. I told him to follow his heart dropping all the temporary expectations. 

I mean come on, we fall for someone and seek emotional support if we are going through a hard time. And I think love is more of emotional support than being attached physically.

All we do is for happiness if you're not then better to think over it and decide it finally.

These signs are not only toxic but also indicate for immediate action.

1. Your Partner Has Stopped Admiring You.

''You're awesome''

''Look at your vibrant smile''

''You're confident babe''

''You're different''

''You can do it''

These are the supportive lines that usually comes we get to hear in healthy relationships for our partners standing beside you or over phone calls.

 

The sign of a beautiful relationship is most of the attempt is made to keep a smile of consent on both's faces while supporting each other that 'yes' I'm always there with you. 

Admiration is the sign of warm approval that helps you boost your confidence and gives the courage to perform the task. Seriously, if we hear it coming from someone close to the heart means a lot. But,

Suddenly completely turning these lines into an awkward silence is not a good sign. You need to talk to her ''why is it so?'' over it, if not then, no doubt, there's a huge misunderstanding or a carcinogenic thought based on either of your mistakes is revolving. 

2. You Want to Change Yourself For Her The Way She Wants
 

Don't change yourself the way you are, your nature. doing so will only cause your internal or mental chaos.

''Give me one chance I'll prove it I'm worthy of you.''

Stop it! and do some introspection 'Is this line really going to help?'

Remember that relationship is all about love, trust, support, and pride tell me 'where is the pride in groveling and begging?' And they have made their decision then respect it and make yours.

Their moving on does not make you a loser and worthless, it means your mental frequency is different from theirs.

In a desperate attempt to get them back don't f*ck with yourself by promising the change to yourself. If the mistake emerged from your side do apologize to them if not you're going to face it for the rest of the time. 

''A relationship is managing and accepting each other irrespective of who they are not seeking change from each other according to their convenience.''

3. You Both Have Developed Some Trusting Issues

This is a super important sign that you're not living in a relationship you're just stuck, living with body and mind creating some mess all the time and thinking about catching her red-handed. 

'Where's she talking to?' 

'Why is that guy looking at her that way?' 

These are the bulls*t thought that comes to your head if you've lost the trust for each other.

Trust is the basic element for a relationship and necessary too. It doesn't stand in a single day like a building. Literally, the more strong the feeling of trust is more indestructible the relation becomes. 

''Once this foundation of trust is somehow shaken then it'd be hard to prevent the building of relationship from collapsing.''

4. Getting More Private

Concerning an individual's privacy is his/her right. But more privacy than usual always indicates something changed or protected with the intention not to reveal. 

You could get access to her phone earlier now you can't. She would attend her call in your presence now she walks out of the door. 

You give her control of your emotions, I won't say it's your right to know all about her private life but it should be very clear that both should know about each other even if it goes a little about private because this sudden change in privacy really hurts after all you love her and promised your heart probably not to lose at any extent.

This simply inflicts dishonesty and lead to hundreds of thoughts about it, waste your time. You should talk over ''why?''.

 

5. More Arguments 

Discussion is natural but an argument somewhat/sometimes seems charged with ego and emotions. Getting into more arguments even on minor things comes from frustration, stress, and anger which shows you both are not doing well, the required mutual understanding lacks between you both. 

Giving her a surprise visit earlier was cute and kind of 'aww' now it's like 'at least you should've informed before coming' and here the argument starts. 'Bringing her different flavored ice cream was not a big deal to manage now boom the argument breaks out. 

''The sense of ego developed between both is nowhere a good sign. And that ego cause kind of sense of supremacy over each other. And this supremacy exists nowhere in love and relationship.''

6. Being Bossy to Each Other

''Bossy means having a behave to control someone, dominate someone.''

Nobody wants to be dominated by anyone. There's no love without freedom and liberal terms between the two. If you hesitate to do whatever you love to do only because of your partner's dominating behavior then you're more living in freedom no, no more in love. It's like slavery. 

Living subordinate to someone is not love rather living in peaceful and romantic harmony is. 

7. The Fading Mutual Support

I have a friend living in New Delhi who fell for someone, purposed her and she accepted. Their romantic life was smoothy running it looked like they are only made for each other, even the enthusiastic captions they wrote before posting any pic on social media like 'made for each other.'  

All this was good until a difficult time stroke to his life. He lost his job in pursuit of a new one. It was a really difficult time for him that he had to ask for some money to pay even room rent. Meanwhile, she was had already thought that he's a loser. She stopped picking his phone. It was a real tragedy and finally, all the images with the caption 'made for each other' got deleted for every social media platform they had shared on.

People seek emotional support from the person he/she says loves. No matter what both should stand for each other. Lacking these support really not a healthy sign. 

8. Not Listening to Each Other 

One of the potential signs of a toxic relationship. Everybody talks and share their words, want people to listen then but there are very few who wholeheartedly listen to your words, and give a satisfactory reply. This is the most beautiful part of a relationship when two completely strange individuals get mingled with each other, feel connected. All is because of sharing honest words. 

It sometimes works as a painkiller, sometimes helps to rejuvenate the excitement back in your love life. Not listening to each other means the only means transferring emotions is fading away. 

9. Lying to Each Other 

''Truth is the only foundation for long-lasting trust and is for a long-lasting relationship''

Lying is a potential sign you are giving your precious time to the wrong person. A lie can ruin your life. Get out of it before it's too late.

10. Not Respecting Each Other

Super important. 

We give control of our emotions to a person, not the respect and dignity we have. Anything being disrespectful is unacceptable not even in a friendship. Your dignity and respect should be higher than anything and not letting violated is your responsibility.

 

Moreover, the lack of respect downs a person's image quickly in our eyes then how can we even talk to a person who tried to look down upon us. 

If you have secured your respect there are a lot out there to have you if not the same will happen another one too. 

You should love yourself first then any other, don't let it destroyed only because of your silly needs.